Sexual and Gender Diversity / en Sexologist Jessica O'Reilly says 茄子直播 program launched her career /news/sexologist-jessica-o-reilly-says-u-t-program-launched-her-career <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">Sexologist Jessica O'Reilly says 茄子直播 program launched her career</span> <div class="field field--name-field-featured-picture field--type-image field--label-hidden field__item"> <img loading="eager" srcset="/sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_370/public/jessica-oreilly-headshot-crop.jpg?h=afdc3185&amp;itok=8dmVjZT- 370w, /sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_740/public/jessica-oreilly-headshot-crop.jpg?h=afdc3185&amp;itok=ZDTmMGOP 740w, /sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_1110/public/jessica-oreilly-headshot-crop.jpg?h=afdc3185&amp;itok=-TtB1UaR 1110w" sizes="(min-width:1200px) 1110px, (max-width: 1199px) 80vw, (max-width: 767px) 90vw, (max-width: 575px) 95vw" width="740" height="494" src="/sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_370/public/jessica-oreilly-headshot-crop.jpg?h=afdc3185&amp;itok=8dmVjZT-" alt="&quot;&quot;"> </div> <span class="field field--name-uid field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden"><span>Christopher.Sorensen</span></span> <span class="field field--name-created field--type-created field--label-hidden"><time datetime="2023-03-17T15:42:25-04:00" title="Friday, March 17, 2023 - 15:42" class="datetime">Fri, 03/17/2023 - 15:42</time> </span> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-cutline-long field--type-text-long field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Cutline</div> <div class="field__item">Jessica O鈥橰eilly, one of the country's most trusted experts when it comes to sexology and relationships, says she had never heard of the field of sexology before studying sexual diversity studies at 茄子直播 (all photos supplied by Jessica O'Reilly)</div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-topic field--type-entity-reference field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Topic</div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/topics/our-community" hreflang="en">Our Community</a></div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-story-tags field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/alumni" hreflang="en">茄子直播</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/faculty-arts-science" hreflang="en">Faculty of Arts &amp; Science</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/ontario-institute-studies-education" hreflang="en">Ontario Institute for Studies in Education</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/sexual-and-gender-diversity" hreflang="en">Sexual and Gender Diversity</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/university-college" hreflang="en">University College</a></div> </div> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-body field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>One day she鈥檚 answering viewers鈥 questions on the&nbsp;<em>Today Show</em>&nbsp;in New York. The next, she鈥檚 giving relationship advice to a sold-out auditorium of executives in Dubai.</p> <p>Wherever she is, or whoever she鈥檚 talking to, sex and relationship expert <strong>Jessica O鈥橰eilly</strong> uses her University of Toronto degree in sexual diversity studies&nbsp;to improve lives.</p> <p>O鈥橰eilly says was one of the first students to major in the <a href="https://artsci.calendar.utoronto.ca/section/Sexual-Diversity-Studies#:~:text=The%20Sexual%20Diversity%20Studies%20program,both%20local%20and%20global%20contexts.">Faculty of Arts &amp; Science program</a> in the early 2000s.</p> <p>鈥淚鈥檇 never heard of a sexologist back then, but now I can draw a direct line between what I studied in my undergraduate and what I鈥檓 doing today,鈥 she says.</p> <p>O鈥橰eilly is one of Canada鈥檚 most trusted experts when it comes to sexology and relationships, focusing on both the physical and emotional angles of intimacy. Her popular podcast&nbsp;<em>Sex with Dr. Jess</em>&nbsp;has thousands of subscribers. She鈥檚 published several books and is among the&nbsp;go-to commentators on gender identity, sexual health and friendship for CBC and Global TV.</p> <p>She earned her honours bachelor of arts degree in 2005 as a member of&nbsp;University College. O鈥橰eilly was also the recipient of a scholarship from <strong>Mark S. Bonham</strong>, several years before the major donor鈥檚 name graced the&nbsp;<a href="https://sds.utoronto.ca/">Mark S. Bonham Centre for Sexual Diversity Studies</a>. The gift enabled her to find success.</p> <p>鈥淚f it weren鈥檛 for that scholarship and mentorship of my instructors, I probably wouldn鈥檛 have finished,鈥 O鈥橰eilly says, recalling support from <a href="http://www.artsci.utoronto.ca/news/june-larkin-reflects-three-decades-teaching-women-gender-studies-institute">retired&nbsp;Professor <strong>June Larkin</strong></a>&nbsp;and Professor <strong>Pam Shime</strong>, who has since joined Stanford University.</p> <p><img alt src="/sites/default/files/today-show-crop.jpg" style="width: 750px; height: 500px;"></p> <p><em>Jessica O鈥橰eilly and her partner Brandon Ware appear on the&nbsp;Today Show&nbsp;with hosts Hoda Kotb and Jenna Bush Hager.</em></p> <p>During her undergraduate years, O'Reilly sourced inspiration outside the classroom as co-executive director at 茄子直播鈥檚&nbsp;<a href="https://www.secutoronto.org/">Sexual Education Centre</a>, calling it an invaluable experience.</p> <p>鈥淚t was really eye opening to see how much university students can struggle with shame when it comes to their sexuality and sexual health,鈥 recalls O鈥橰eilly. 鈥淭hose issues can interfere with every corner of a person鈥檚 life.鈥</p> <p>But she sees signs of progress.</p> <p>鈥淭hat was 20 years ago,&nbsp;and while I can't say that we've eradicated sexual shame, 茄子直播 is doing an excellent job of chipping away at it. One antidote for shame is bringing that conversation out into the open.鈥</p> <p>O鈥橰eilly made good friends with counselling centre co-workers&nbsp;鈥 fellow alumni she鈥檚 still going to dinners with two decadeslater. At 茄子直播, she says she finally discovered peers she identified with on multiple levels.</p> <p>"We're all Caribbean-Canadian&nbsp;and so we found this common interest around wanting to support people鈥檚 sexual health,鈥 she says. 鈥淏ut I think it was important for me as a hyphenated person to find other people with similar life experiences.鈥</p> <p>O鈥橰eilly went on to earn her bachelor鈥檚 of education degree from the&nbsp;Ontario Institute for Studies in Education (OISE) and has&nbsp;conducted much of her research alongside 茄子直播 faculty.</p> <p><img alt src="/sites/default/files/oreilly-ted-talk-social-crop_0.jpg" style="width: 750px; height: 500px;"></p> <p><em>Jessica O鈥橰eilly has run thousands of workshops around the world on sexology and relationships.</em></p> <p>Her influence is international. She has run thousands of workshops in 45 countries, from Lebanon and T眉rkiye to&nbsp;the United States and Mexico. She coaches entrepreneurs and their partners who have it all figured out in the workplace 鈥&nbsp;but not necessarily in the bedroom or at the kitchen table.</p> <p>鈥淪ex is the easy part,鈥 says O鈥橰eilly. 鈥淚t's all the relational elements that come with sex that we need to invest in. Relationships are the most important things in our lives. The quality of your relationships has a significant impact on your mental health and your physical health, but we don't tend to invest in our relationships until there's a problem.</p> <p>鈥淚f we could approach relationships the same way we approach our careers or raising our children, we could do so much preventative work. That's what I'm trying to do in these workshops 鈥 have people talk everything out before irreparable problems have time to take hold in a marriage.鈥</p> <p>In her experience, O鈥橰eilly says people want a balance of safety, comfort and predictability 鈥 but they also crave excitement. Her job is to help people understand that passion is something you cultivate&nbsp;and not something you just stumble upon.</p> <p>鈥淭here are all these myths around what romantic love should feel like or look like 鈥 or the myth of finding the one,鈥 she explains. 鈥淵ou might be worried that you don鈥檛 feel a flutter in your stomach anymore when your partner kisses you, but that鈥檚 just neurochemistry.</p> <p>"I take the research and the theory and make very simple recommendations, like altering how you talk to your partner or shaking up your daily routine. Small changes can make a big difference and it doesn鈥檛 have to be complicated.鈥</p> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-news-home-page-banner field--type-boolean field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">News home page banner</div> <div class="field__item">Off</div> </div> Fri, 17 Mar 2023 19:42:25 +0000 Christopher.Sorensen 180763 at 茄子直播 alumnus, partner bring visibility to Indigenous and two-spirit community on The Amazing Race Canada /news/u-t-alumnus-partner-bring-visibility-indigenous-and-two-spirit-community-amazing-race-canada <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">茄子直播 alumnus, partner bring visibility to Indigenous and two-spirit community on The Amazing Race Canada</span> <div class="field field--name-field-featured-picture field--type-image field--label-hidden field__item"> <img loading="eager" srcset="/sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_370/public/anthony-james.jpg?h=83d2c2fb&amp;itok=-VQX3KsS 370w, /sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_740/public/anthony-james.jpg?h=83d2c2fb&amp;itok=a96eUdhQ 740w, /sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_1110/public/anthony-james.jpg?h=83d2c2fb&amp;itok=sAbQwC99 1110w" sizes="(min-width:1200px) 1110px, (max-width: 1199px) 80vw, (max-width: 767px) 90vw, (max-width: 575px) 95vw" width="740" height="494" src="/sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_370/public/anthony-james.jpg?h=83d2c2fb&amp;itok=-VQX3KsS" alt="Anthony and James from Amazing Race Canada"> </div> <span class="field field--name-uid field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden"><span>geoff.vendeville</span></span> <span class="field field--name-created field--type-created field--label-hidden"><time datetime="2019-07-16T12:32:24-04:00" title="Tuesday, July 16, 2019 - 12:32" class="datetime">Tue, 07/16/2019 - 12:32</time> </span> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-cutline-long field--type-text-long field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Cutline</div> <div class="field__item">Anthony Johnson (left) and his partner James Makokis, a 茄子直播 alumnus, are competing on this season's The Amazing Race Canada (photo courtesy of CTV)</div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-author-reporters field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/authors-reporters/geoffrey-vendeville" hreflang="en">Geoffrey Vendeville</a></div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-topic field--type-entity-reference field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Topic</div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/topics/city-culture" hreflang="en">City &amp; Culture</a></div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-story-tags field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/diversity-and-inclusion" hreflang="en">Diversity and Inclusion</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/alumni" hreflang="en">茄子直播</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/dalla-lana-school-public-health" hreflang="en">Dalla Lana School of Public Health</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/indigenous" hreflang="en">Indigenous</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/lgbtq" hreflang="en">LGBTQ</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/sexual-and-gender-diversity" hreflang="en">Sexual and Gender Diversity</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/varsity-blues" hreflang="en">Varsity Blues</a></div> </div> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-body field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>A University of Toronto education is meant to prepare graduates for anything life throws at them 鈥 including, apparently,&nbsp;whirlwind journeys across the country on<em> The</em> <em>Amazing Race Canada</em>.&nbsp;</p> <p>On this season of the reality TV show, three alumni 鈥 Dr. <strong>James Makokis</strong>, who has a master鈥檚 degree in public health from 茄子直播, <strong>Sarah Wells</strong>, a Varsity Blues and Olympic hurdler,&nbsp;and <strong>Thinesh Kumarakulasingam</strong>, a software developer 鈥 are vying for the grand prize:&nbsp;$250,000, two cars&nbsp;and a trip around the world.&nbsp;</p> <p>Makokis and his partner Anthony Johnson are also racing for another reason. The couple are Indigenous 鈥 Makokis is a member of the Saddle Lake Cree Nation, Johnson is Navajo 鈥 and identify as <a href="https://lgbtqhealth.ca/community/two-spirit.php">two-spirit</a>. Makokis says he wants to use his appearance on the show to raise awareness about sexual and gender diversity, while Johnson says he wants to represent 鈥渁 different flavour of humanity鈥 on TV.&nbsp;</p> <p>The couple, who live in Edmonton, tied the knot during a different race: They exchanged vows wearing matching tuxedo T-shirts at the 32-kilometre mark of the Vancouver Marathon in 2017.</p> <p>In the first two episodes of <em>The</em> <em>Amazing Race Canada</em>,&nbsp;they encountered challenges as diverse as zip-lining across a dormant copper mine in Kamloops, B.C.&nbsp;to dirt-biking in Revelstoke, B.C.&nbsp;</p> <p>Makokis and Johnson recently spoke to&nbsp;<em>茄子直播 News</em> about why they wanted to go on the TV show and how they prepared for the grueling race&nbsp;鈥&nbsp;including a speedy, self-guided 茄子直播 campus tour.&nbsp;</p> <hr> <p><strong>James, you received a master's in public health from 茄子直播 in 2006. You then graduated from medical school. Can you catch us up on what you've done since then?&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><em>Makokis:</em> I did medical school at the University of Ottawa. Then, after that, (I went) to the University of British Columbia to the aboriginal training residency program in Victoria. Since then I've been working as a family doctor.&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>You're a member of the Saddle Lake Cree Nation, and&nbsp;I read that it was your dream to work within your community.&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><em>Makokis:</em> Yeah, I ended up working at home for a couple of years. Afterwards, I moved on to do a sub-specialty practice in transgender health. Right now, that's a large part of my practice. I operate a specialty clinic in south Edmonton. I also work three days per week doing primary care on another Cree reserve, which is near to mine and it's called Kehewin Cree Nation.</p> <p><strong>And you continue to be involved with 茄子直播's Dalla Lana School of Public Health. Can you tell me about that?&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><em>Makokis: </em>I'm an adjunct faculty member because I'm supervising one of the graduate students. I'm also on a community advisory council.</p> <p><strong>How did the two of you meet?&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><em>Johnson:</em>&nbsp;We met because I messaged James on Facebook. He had been tagged in an article in <em>Out Magazine</em> about the Montana Two-Spirit Society or Two-Spirit Gathering. It's an organization that fosters knowledge and community among two-spirit people. It's based out of Montana, but every year they host a gathering. It tends to be people from all across the U.S. and Canada, and guests from other nations, too.&nbsp;</p> <p>Anyway, there was an article in <em>Out Magazine</em> in which [James] appeared as a model. I had been dealing with issues of homophobia and discrimination in ceremonies I was attending, and I was looking for guidance. I reached out to him on a whim and we started chatting on Facebook.&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>I read an article that said you're both aiming to raise awareness about sexual and gender diversity. Can you tell me about what it means to be two-spirit and why you want to spread awareness about it?&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><em>Makokis:</em> There are many interpretations of being two-spirit. It basically represents gender and sexual diversity in Indigenous communities, and prior to colonization that was respected and valued within these various Indigenous Nations. People had different roles and functions, but [the term] encompasses not only sexual identity, but other things.&nbsp;</p> <p><em>Johnson:</em> For me, two-spirit is just an English word to represent something much deeper. So, in my language it would be called <em>nadleeh</em>. There's a story about the word and how it relates to the changing of the seasons. But it's kind of describing the idea that the energy of a being can change, and be transmorphic. So 鈥渢wo-spirit,鈥 for me, means that I'm not a solely male energy or solely female. I have many expressions and they're constantly in flux.</p> <p><strong>And why was it important for both of you to raise awareness?</strong></p> <p><em>Makokis:</em> For many different reasons. For myself, as a physician working with the trans community especially, but also two-spirit people, there needs to be positive role models for that community. There needs to be people from the community who are advocating and being proud and open about who they are.&nbsp;</p> <p>Young two-spirit and trans people, especially, have the highest rate of suicide of any group. So by providing culturally safe transgender care and medical hormone therapy and intertwining&nbsp;teaching of what it means to be two-spirit and the teachings from a Cree perspective 鈥 all of those things foster resilience. If they get to see diversity on TV, if they get to see there are people like them out there, who are also successful, have gone to school but who have also maintained their culture, identity, heritage and language&nbsp;鈥&nbsp;having all those things makes them stronger.</p> <p><em>Johnson:</em><strong> </strong>For me, the idea of being on TV is that you're seen. When you're seen, you can't be denied because I'm like in your cornea <em>[laughs]</em>. So it's not just about the two-spirit angle. It's about everything that I represent: being an American, being gay, being two-spirit, being Indigenous, being a slightly flamboyant man, but also being six-foot-three, having fun, being aggressive. I'm all of these juxtapositions that lead people to question their assumptions and pre-conceived notions about me.&nbsp;</p> <p>One of the things I love about James, and the thing I love about us, is that we know what a question mark looks like on someone's face. Because when they see us, they don't know where to place us. We're Indigenous, we're gay, but James went to the University of Toronto&nbsp;鈥&nbsp;a very prestigious institution 鈥 and he's a physician. I went to Harvard to study economics. And so to represent everything that we are, and to show a different side of life, a different flavour of humanity, is the reason why I wanted to be on the show&nbsp;鈥&nbsp;even if it means eating bugs.&nbsp;</p> <p><img class="migrated-asset" src="/sites/default/files/amazing-race.jpg" alt></p> <p><em>A group shot of the 10 teams on this season of The&nbsp;Amazing Race Canada (photo courtesy of CTV)&nbsp;</em></p> <p><strong>What makes you two a good team鈥&nbsp;and not just on <em>The</em> <em>Amazing Race Canada</em>?&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><em>Johnson:</em> I think it's understanding each other, knowing each other, having forgiveness for one another. And we're also both very competitive people. You can't win if you're not willing to compete.&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>A 茄子直播 education prepares graduates for life's biggest challenges. James, I imagine your courses didn't cover dirt-bike racing, tree-planting and zip-lining, but did your education come in handy in other ways?</strong></p> <p><em>Makokis:</em> As a public health nutrition graduate, I did really take note of what the other racers were eating or not eating. I was very quick to note who the vegans were and who the people with gluten intolerances were&nbsp;in the event that I had to face them in an eating challenge.&nbsp;</p> <p><em>Johnson:</em> I do want to add that we did a practice run at 茄子直播.&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>What do you mean?&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><em>Johnson:</em><strong> </strong>We ran around 茄子直播 at night because James wanted to show me all his old haunts. That was one of our training runs to prepare for the show. We were in Toronto and he wanted to show me 茄子直播, and we were training already for the show at that point.&nbsp;</p> <p><em>Makokis:</em> I showed him Hart House, Convocation Hall and where my dorm was, and the hot dog van I went to when I was done clubbing. Stuff like that.&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Tell me about your team name.&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><em>Makokis:</em> Our team name is <em>Ahkameyimok</em>. It's a Plains Cree word for: 鈥淒on't give up, keep going, persevere.鈥 When I was going to university and was not having a good time at 茄子直播 or U of O, and I wanted to quit or things like that, it's something that our elders or family members would say to me:&nbsp;"<em>Ahkameyimok,"&nbsp;</em>or 鈥渒eep going.鈥 It was always implied that I wasn't doing all that for myself, but it was to come home and bring those skills and knowledge and education back to improve our community health and improve our nation. It was a big responsibility and it wasn't just for me. It was a word of encouragement they would always tell us. We wanted to have something positive for people to learn about Indigenous people, Indigenous languages. It's the International Year of Indigenous Languages. But also, it's really fun to say. You can hear Anthony saying it to me while I'm flying over the zip line over the mine in Kamloops. Other people got to say it, too.&nbsp;</p> <p><em>Johnson:</em> You'll be the first person we ever told this to, but the way Team Ahkameyimok came into existence: We had been talking about team names, and then one day I went out for a run and I was tired. I didn't want to run, my body was hurting but then the word 鈥&nbsp;and I'm not Cree&nbsp;鈥&nbsp;<em>ahkameyimok </em>popped into my head. And it kind of makes me think of someone on the plains before cars 鈥 they're walking through the snow. There's a blizzard. There are all these adverse situations and they're up against the wall. You can either sit down in the snow and die or you can <em>ahkameyimok </em>and get to that next place that you need to go in order to survive.&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>On that note, what's the toughest thing you had to do so far on the race?</strong></p> <p><em>Johnson:</em> I think at this point, the most difficult part is the pace of <em>The Amazing Race</em>. All the challenges are equally difficult because they're stressful and you don't know what you're doing and you're like ripping open a clue and walking into a situation totally blind. But the thing you can't prepare for is that<em> The</em> <em>Amazing Race</em> isn't a marathon, it's a sprint. It happens at an incredibly fast pace and you have to adjust to that. You can't do any of the challenges&nbsp;if you're tired or not mentally there.&nbsp;</p> <p><em>Makokis:</em> For me, in medical school we have block exams every four to six weeks. That's where you write about the entire body system you just had&nbsp;鈥&nbsp;respiratory or cardiovascular, for example. So you're extremely stressed especially on the test day.&nbsp;</p> <p><em>Johnson:</em> If I could provide an analogy, it feels like it's 10:30 p.m. and your paper is due at midnight and you still haven't started [laughs]. You're increasing the margins, enlarging the font size. It's like that, but on steroids.&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>I think we all know how that feels, unfortunately. Are there any fears you had to overcome on the show?&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><em>Makokis:</em> I'll tell you what my fears were going into the show:&nbsp;&nbsp;Anything with bugs grosses me out. Aspects of height also scare me.&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>And, James, you had to zip line, so that must have been pretty scary for you.&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><em>Makokis:</em> We had done Central America's longest and highest zip line in Costa Rica in December, so when I saw that one I was like, 鈥淥K, this is nothing.鈥&nbsp;</p> <p>In reality, when you go to a challenge you just want to get through it because you don't want to disappoint your partner.&nbsp;</p> <p><em>Johnson:</em><strong> </strong>For me, I didn't have a lot of fears, but I think the most difficult thing to get over is giving up control because you're in this thing where you don't know what's happening. You don't know where you're going next and you just have to go with it.&nbsp;</p> <p><em>The Amazing Race Canada airs Tuesdays at 9&nbsp;p.m. EDT on CTV, CTV.ca and the CTV app</em></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-news-home-page-banner field--type-boolean field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">News home page banner</div> <div class="field__item">Off</div> </div> Tue, 16 Jul 2019 16:32:24 +0000 geoff.vendeville 157290 at 茄子直播's Lee Airton launches campaign urging people to say NBD to gender neutral pronouns /news/u-t-s-lee-airton-launches-campaign-urging-people-say-nbd-gender-neutral-pronouns <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden">茄子直播's Lee Airton launches campaign urging people to say NBD to gender neutral pronouns</span> <div class="field field--name-field-featured-picture field--type-image field--label-hidden field__item"> <img loading="eager" srcset="/sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_370/public/Lee%20Airton.jpg?h=afdc3185&amp;itok=GW4DWeCy 370w, /sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_740/public/Lee%20Airton.jpg?h=afdc3185&amp;itok=ELcd0qZd 740w, /sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_1110/public/Lee%20Airton.jpg?h=afdc3185&amp;itok=EXLG3Afc 1110w" sizes="(min-width:1200px) 1110px, (max-width: 1199px) 80vw, (max-width: 767px) 90vw, (max-width: 575px) 95vw" width="740" height="494" src="/sites/default/files/styles/news_banner_370/public/Lee%20Airton.jpg?h=afdc3185&amp;itok=GW4DWeCy" alt="Photo of Lee Airton"> </div> <span class="field field--name-uid field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden"><span>geoff.vendeville</span></span> <span class="field field--name-created field--type-created field--label-hidden"><time datetime="2016-12-01T09:04:17-05:00" title="Thursday, December 1, 2016 - 09:04" class="datetime">Thu, 12/01/2016 - 09:04</time> </span> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-field-cutline-long field--type-text-long field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Cutline</div> <div class="field__item">Lee Airton says the goal of the NBD campaign is "to make visible the quieter support that is already there" (photo by Geoffrey Vendeville) </div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-author-reporters field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/authors-reporters/geoffrey-vendeville" hreflang="en">Geoffrey Vendeville</a></div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-author-legacy field--type-string field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Author legacy</div> <div class="field__item">Geoffrey Vendeville</div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-topic field--type-entity-reference field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">Topic</div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/topics/our-community" hreflang="en">Our Community</a></div> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-story-tags field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/sexual-and-gender-diversity" hreflang="en">Sexual and Gender Diversity</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/gender" hreflang="en">Gender</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/bill-c-16" hreflang="en">Bill C-16</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/lgbtq" hreflang="en">LGBTQ</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/faculty-arts-science" hreflang="en">Faculty of Arts &amp; Science</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/news/tags/oise" hreflang="en">OISE</a></div> </div> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-body field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>Referring to someone&nbsp;as 鈥渢hey鈥 takes little effort, says a <a href="http://www.nbdcampaign.ca/">new campaign</a> called 鈥淣o Big Deal鈥&nbsp;鈥 &nbsp;but it could mean the world to that person.</p> <p>Led by <strong>Lee Airton</strong>, an instructor at 茄子直播's Ontario Institute for Studies in Education&nbsp;who uses the gender neutral pronoun 鈥渢hey,鈥 the campaign comes amid a larger national discussion about gender and language.</p> <p>鈥淢y pronoun is a big deal to me,鈥 said Airton. 鈥淚t鈥檚 taken me many years to get here and find something that works 鈥&nbsp;and that makes all kinds of things possible in my life 鈥&nbsp;but I feel like it doesn鈥檛 have to be a big deal to you.鈥</p> <p>Airton teamed up with illustrator Cai Sepulis to design a badge in different shades of green saying 鈥淚鈥檒l use your pronoun 鈥&nbsp;no big deal.鈥 Airton has since&nbsp;published it online under a creative commons license so anyone can share and use it.&nbsp;</p> <p>鈥淭he goal of the badge is to make visible the quieter support that is already there&nbsp;[for using gender neutral pronouns],鈥 Airton said.&nbsp;</p> <p>They have also created&nbsp;graphics with additional&nbsp;information&nbsp;including arguments for using gender neutral pronouns.</p> <p><img alt class="media-image attr__typeof__foaf:Image img__fid__2716 img__view_mode__media_original attr__format__media_original" src="/sites/default/files/Lee%20Airton%20tweet%20cropped.jpg" style="width: 551px; height: 500px;" typeof="foaf:Image"><br> <em>Airton tweeted about wearing the NBD campaign badge with Randall Garrison, an NDP British Columbia MP.</em></p> <p>The campaign has received funding from 茄子直播鈥檚 Mark S. Bonham Centre for Sexual Diversity Studies, the sexual and gender diversity office, Planned Parenthood Toronto and the Canadian Centre for Gender and Sexual Diversity.&nbsp;</p> <p>The campaign can dispel misconceptions around Bill C-16, which would bar discrimination based on gender identity and gender expression, said <strong>Brenda Cossman</strong>, a 茄子直播 law professor and director of the Bonham Centre in the Faculty of Arts &amp; Science.</p> <p>鈥淭his is a wonderfully refreshing campaign that just tries to explain why pronouns are really important to people鈥檚 dignity and respect,&nbsp;and why it鈥檚 a really easy thing to do,鈥 Cossman said.</p> <p>When someone gets Airton鈥檚 pronoun wrong, it can be hurtful if done deliberately 鈥&nbsp;but&nbsp;more often it's&nbsp;just awkward, said Airton. Over time, it becomes draining.&nbsp;</p> <p>鈥淚t saps a bit of your energy every time,鈥 Airton said.</p> <p>It would be a relief for those who prefer to be known by a gender neutral pronoun to walk into a caf茅&nbsp;for example&nbsp;and see a barista wearing a 鈥淣o Big Deal鈥 badge, Airton said.</p> <p>Airton opted for the gender neutral word five years ago because they didn鈥檛 feel comfortable being lumped into the traditional male or female category. At <a href="http://theyismypronoun.com/">TheyIsMyPronoun.com</a>, Airton answers questions submitted by readers about using the pronoun, such as how to write fiction with the singular 鈥渢hey鈥 and whether to use 鈥渢hemself鈥 or 鈥渢hemselves.鈥</p> <h3><a href="http://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/gender-neutral-pronouns-shouldnt-be-a-big-deal/article32497815/">Read Airton鈥檚 op-ed in <em>The Globe and Mail</em></a></h3> <p>The use of 鈥渢hey鈥 to refer to a gender-nonconforming person has gained currency in some quarters in recent years, Airton noted.</p> <p>In January, the American Dialect Society, a more than century-old group of editors, linguists, grammarians, students and teachers&nbsp;chose the singular 鈥渢hey鈥 as <a href="http://www.americandialect.org/woty">Word of the Year for 2015</a>. A month earlier, the <em>Washington Post</em> adapted its style guide to allow its writers to use the gender neutral pronoun.</p> <p>The NBD campaign comes at a good time because there has been a lot of media attention given to transgender issues in recent years, said <strong>Allison Burgess</strong>, 茄子直播鈥檚 sexual and gender diversity officer.</p> <p>鈥淭he campaign is really lovely in that it addresses misinformation about trans identities,鈥 she said.</p> <h3><a href="http://www.metronews.ca/news/toronto/2016/12/06/new-campaign-makes-gender-neutral-pronouns-no-big-deal.html">Read more about Airton's campaign</a></h3> </div> <div class="field field--name-field-news-home-page-banner field--type-boolean field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">News home page banner</div> <div class="field__item">Off</div> </div> Thu, 01 Dec 2016 14:04:17 +0000 geoff.vendeville 102604 at